210. ONE Thing to Grow Together as a Couple | Kaelyn Loes & Brent Wallace

The ONE Thing

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Business, Careers, Entrepreneurship

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 7 October 2019

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

When you set your goals, are you doing it by yourself or with your significant other? When we’re not aligned with the people who are most important to us, the people who have a significant stake in our lives, we’re eliminating one of the most powerful support systems we have — and putting obstacles in the path of our goals. So how can we get them on board with the goal-setting process, even if they’re not goal setters themselves? In this episode, we’re going to look at what one couple did in this exact situation, Kaelyn Loes and Brent Wallace. One of them was your prototypical goal setter — they read the book, listened to the podcast, used productivity apps — while the other felt that the goal-setting process restricted them at times. But today, they go on this journey together, and in this episode you’ll learn about the tools and conversations that helped them come into alignment. If you want to put the ideas discussed in this episode into action, consider joining us at our Goal-Setting Retreat. And if you can’t make it to Austin this year, we’ll help you host your own retreat with the Kick Ass Guide® to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat and the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course. In this episode, you will learn... [2:00] Why being disinterested or disengaged with your partner’s goal-setting process can devalue their goals [6:00] How to support your goal-setting partner, even if you aren’t a goal setter yourself [20:15] How going on of a couple’s goal-setting retreat can change your relationship [27:50] How goal-setting retreats can create much-needed context around your partner’s goals [31:00] What happens if you discover that you and your partner aren’t aligned [41:15] Questions you can ask your partner to enlist their support in the goal-setting process Links & Tools From This Episode Join us at our Goal-Setting Retreat (Nov. 9th & 10th in Austin, TX): the1thing.com/event. Download the FREE Kick Ass Guide® to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat We’ll help you facilitate a retreat with the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course Mentioned in this episode: Factor 75 Head to FactorMeals.com/one50 and use code one50 to get 50% off. That’s code one50 at FactorMeals.com/one50 to get 50% off! Factor 75

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0:00.0	What's the one thing you need to know about the homes on reality TV?
0:03.8	They're just not realistic. Today's idea of reality in TV, media, and culture
0:08.8	set up unreal expectations of what a home should be.
0:12.0	Realtor.com encourages people to stop letting media define their home-buying reality for them,
0:17.0	because only you know what you really need.
0:20.0	Realtor.com comes with all the tools and features you need to find a home that's right for you.
0:24.9	Whether that be price tracking, school searches, text alerts, it's not about finding a dream home,
0:30.6	but a home you can dream in.
0:33.0	Find homes for the real of us on realtor.com.
0:38.0	This is the one thing podcast where we teach you the surprisingly simple truth behind extraordinary results.
0:45.0	Here at the one thing every November,
0:48.0	we host our one thing couple's goal-setting retreat.
0:51.0	And each year, we hear from people like you in our community that they would
0:54.9	love to join us and they love the idea of setting goals with their spouse but
0:59.5	they're just not sure they can get them on board they're either not a goal setter or they're just
1:04.4	not into all the systems or they're actually resistant to the idea of it. And as
1:10.2	we continued to hear that story, I wanted to share my own, because full disclosure,
1:16.4	before the one thing, I would not have called myself a goal setter.
1:20.4	Sure, I was achievement oriented, and I was a go-getter, but I didn't have a system and a path to get there.
1:28.0	I was more just driven by results and driven by performance.
1:32.0	And so my story of coming from not being a goal setter to now really learning the
1:39.0	value of the processes and and being able to share it with my partner Brent, it's been a true journey.
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