From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenso, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Lisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858 876

5663. That's 858, 876,5663.

And in today's show, you've been praying for change in your marriage for a long time and you're wondering if

God hears you or if he even cares about your marriage. We hear that a lot. There are so

many emails and we've asked the question ourselves

in our own marriage when we face challenges.

And I want you to think about this quote from Mother Theresa.

She says, prayer is not asking.

Prayers putting oneself in the hands of God at his disposition

and listening to his voice in the depths of our hearts.

Some powerful words there. She was incredible missionary and want to start

today with this hug that we received. This person wrote in and said, y'all have done so much for my marriage.

Words will never ever be able to say thank you enough.

Last year, I was ready to drop kick my 20 plus year marriage through the goalposts.

Sex was not happening much if at all and I had shut down and communicating with her.

I'd even told her I was absolutely miserable.

In desperation I went to look for something, anything that

might help, but was not hoping for much. I stumbled across your podcast as I looked for

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