#21: When Someone Walks Away, Let Them Go... Moving On & Healing After a Breakup
Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak
Trina Leckie
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 25 October 2016
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
When the person you love walks away from your relationship, it may be surprising, confusing, devastating, and/or take lots of time to recover. This episode will hopefully shed some light as to why they may have walked away and actually make you feel better by giving you new perspective xo.
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| 0:00.0 | Broken-hearted? Feeling like the world is over? |
| 0:05.0 | Convinced you'll never meet anyone else? |
| 0:08.0 | Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle. |
| 0:14.0 | She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life. |
| 0:18.0 | The topic of today's episode is, |
| 0:22.9 | when someone walks away, let them go. |
| 0:27.1 | Life would be so much easier if we didn't get so attached to people and things. |
| 0:31.9 | In the case of relationships, it tends to be much easier for the person who decides to walk |
| 0:36.4 | away than for the person who was dumped. |
| 0:40.0 | And this is because when we're broken up with, our ego is bruised and we don't have control over the situation. |
| 0:46.5 | And that can actually make us feel like we want the relationship more than we actually do. |
| 0:51.3 | Like reverse psychology. |
| 0:53.7 | It kind of goes back to saying we want what we can't have. |
| 0:58.9 | It can also have to do with being blindsided. If we didn't see the break up coming, that can be |
| 1:04.6 | much more shocking than if things have been rocky for quite some time. And although that doesn't |
| 1:09.5 | necessarily make it any easier, at least it didn't just |
| 1:12.5 | come from out of nowhere. The most important thing to remember here is that if the relationship you were in |
| 1:19.3 | was amazingly wonderful and you were both super happy, you would probably be together because there would be |
| 1:26.1 | no reason to break up. The breakup happened for a reason. So you need to be together because there would be no reason to break up. |
| 1:29.9 | The breakup happened for a reason. |
| 1:34.4 | So you need to be honest with yourself and stay away from sugar-coding things. |
| 1:39.1 | The sooner you are honest with yourself about the issues that hindered the relationship, |
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