21. Permission to Be Them: Granted
Insource
Ashlie Molstad
4.2 • 940 Ratings
🗓️ 6 April 2023
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
Why can’t they love me the way I want them to?
Why can’t they stop playing the victim?
She shouldn’t treat me that way, he is pissing me off, they are being so unfair…
All of that could be true. But, how does thinking those things make YOU feel? Because you’re the only one feeling your anger, judgement, resentment. In the same way that you’re the only one who gets to feel your love, compassion, empathy.
In episode seven I shared how to handle toxic relationships. In todays episode I dive into how to handle relationships with people you love and want in your life, but you feel aren’t showing up for you the way you want them to.
This is gonna be a rough one, but its a real one. And I hope that as you employ and embody some of these thought tactics and strategies, you give yourself more peace and give them more grace.
See you inside 💥
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| 0:00.0 | When we are living in a space of what is wrong with you, why are you acting like that, you shouldn't be doing that, you should be different. |
| 0:06.7 | If you could just stop being the victim, if you could just stop being manipulative, then I wouldn't feel so shitty. |
| 0:12.7 | When we're doing that, we're the ones feeling shitty |
| 0:14.8 | and we're saying you're making us do that, |
| 0:16.8 | but it's giving all of our power away. |
| 0:18.6 | Instead, it's like, oh, that's just Susie-sousie-sousie-sousie-ing, right? |
| 0:21.6 | Like, it just is what it is. Well, hello friends. Welcome back to the In Source Podcast, where we take all the things that the outside world told us, |
| 0:46.2 | look at them, decide what we want to keep, what's useful and serves us, intentionally focus on those things and |
| 0:54.8 | throw out the rest where we just decide that we get to be in control of our lives |
| 1:01.8 | and our bodies because we're the only expert on us. |
| 1:04.3 | Welcome! |
| 1:05.3 | All right, today's going to be a little bit of a stream of consciousness episode and |
| 1:08.7 | I'm battling this thought in my brain a little bit that is like you have a |
| 1:13.4 | podcast you should be professional you should have a syllabus for every |
| 1:17.3 | episode and you have your shit together but I don't want to I don't want to have a syllabus. |
| 1:25.8 | I don't want to have talking points. |
| 1:27.8 | I still write talking points out for you guys, |
| 1:29.8 | but I don't want to. |
| 1:31.3 | I just want to talk. I feel like that is the way my brain works best. So I do have some |
| 1:39.2 | talking points and things that I want to go through but we're going to see |
| 1:41.3 | where this episode goes because I'm also coming into a little |
| 1:43.5 | bit raw this morning. I'm feeling a little energy depleted. My cycle, I'm 38, my period should be starting any day and it seems like recently my periods are |
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