208 - How Our Pain Is Transformed

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Matt Dobschuetz

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.9 • 672 Ratings

🗓️ 15 August 2019

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Following up on episode 207, Pain Not Transformed is Transmitted, I answer the specific question of how our pain is transformed.

"We are born in relationship, we are wounded in relationship, and we can be healed in relationship. Indeed, we cannot be fully healed outside of a relationship."

— Harville Hendrix, Getting The Love You Want

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0:00.0	Born Free Radio, episode 208. Last week, I talked about the idea that pain in our life not transformed
0:07.4	is transmitted. It comes from the quote by Richard Rohar. It says if we don't transform our pain,
0:12.8	we will most assuredly transmit it. Now, a lot of you guys connected with that podcast and I got some emails this week.
0:22.4	I talked to a number of guys in coaching who were like that really helped them understand
0:28.7	one of the things that they're doing in porn, that they're transmitting some of their
0:34.8	pain into these porn and porn behaviors.
0:39.9	So whether it's anger, whether it's sadness, whether it's fear, it's getting transmitted and it's coming out in this behavior.
0:45.6	But the question I got asked several times this week is Matt, how do we transform our pain?
1:00.0	And so on today's show, I'm going to answer the question, how our pain is transformed. All right, let's start the show.
1:02.0	Porn Free Radio.
1:04.0	Gentlemen, you're listening to me right now.
1:16.0	You and I are together.
1:17.3	I'm there.
1:18.4	I'm in your headphones.
1:19.6	I'm in your stereo, your Bluetooth, whatever.
1:22.3	We're there together.
1:23.7	You know, I'm on the treadmill with you or wherever you are at right now.
1:27.4	That's the best part
1:28.4	I want to podcast. There's a community aspect to it. I'm going to break that down.
1:36.9	All right, I'm not going to wrap for you today. Don't worry, but I'm amped up. Here's another way to look at it.
1:47.4	Man, I love the hook on that song.
1:49.9	That's good.
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