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🗓️ 8 August 2019
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"If we do not transform our pain," Richard Rohr writes. "We will most assuredly transmit it." On today's show, I talk about how we avoid pain with porn and how the work of recovery is about transforming pain.
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0:00.0 | Porn Free Radio Episode 207. When I was growing up, I had a favorite aunt. She was about 14 years |
0:07.4 | older than me. So even when I was, you know, four or five, she was still a teenager. And I looked up to |
0:13.8 | her. I idealized her. She taught me on a skateboard. She introduced me to Steve Martin and Bett Midler and Sarenet Live. She had a great |
0:23.9 | sense of humor. She was creative. I remember she was one of the first people to have a personal |
0:29.4 | computer. And I remember sitting with her and like going through a spreadsheet program similar to Excel it was called |
0:39.3 | lotus one two three and I remember thinking it was really cool and she she really |
0:44.1 | thought computers are going to be important especially personal computers and you |
0:49.9 | know little did I know how much that that would impact my life but you know it was just really cool |
0:57.6 | and I remember one time visiting her before she had kids herself and I think it was 13 and we she |
1:07.8 | lived outside of New York and we got tickets to go to David Letterman and I remember being 13 in December of |
1:17.6 | 1983 and going to see David Letterman and his guests that night were Eddie Murphy and Billy Crystal. So, I mean, it was an amazing, |
1:32.7 | um, uh, it was an amazing trip. I, this was in the days where, you know, miners could fly places and |
1:41.3 | there wasn't a problem. So I flew out to New York and hung out with her and we even |
1:48.3 | went to the New York Stock Exchange I mean it was really cool like I just have these |
1:53.8 | memories of her just emblazoned in my head now Now, several years ago, I mean, I'm even having trouble remembering when this was, |
2:08.1 | but she passed away. She had cancer. And, you know, she had one of those prolonged fights, |
2:16.1 | and we thought she'd pull through, and she didn't. |
2:20.6 | And a couple nights ago, I had a dream where I was with my family, some of my extended family, her two brothers, my mom, a couple of people from my generation. |
2:35.9 | We were all at this sort of family gathering. |
2:39.4 | And she was there and she had come in. |
2:42.7 | And she was tired from a trip. |
2:45.8 | And I felt like I should go say hi to her. |
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