I think being flexible when you can be but also like what do you want to hold dear and it's not wrong to have your family have a tradition.

Where it gets complicated is if it bumps

into your extended family's tradition.

I'm Amy.

And I'm Abby, and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

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Okay you guys last year we did a holiday episode it was more like nuts and bolts we talked

a lot about how we take care of ourselves during the holidays different things that

have just helped us have, you know, a better attitude during the holidays.

And so this year we thought we would take a little bit different of an approach.

This was brought on by my friend Sarah. She said the thing about the holidays is I have started to think when is it my turn to enjoy them and what she meant by that is she has family, she has parents, she has

in-laws, she has kids, and so it feels like we're sandwiched in between generations where a lot of us are still trying to please,

if we can say it so clearly, our parents, also trying to make things special for our kids.

Many of us are craving our own traditions but we just feel stuck because if you try to please all parents,

the time that you have to make your own traditions

with your family starts to become very limited.

So today, we're to talk through some things where we feel the

exact same way. Hopefully you will leave this episode inspired. Hopefully you'll

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