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by podcast. It's Jordy Kakes.

And first things first, I wanted to normalize the fact that sometimes what I've found in marriage and what I've heard from other people

talking about circumstances in their marriage, especially over the course of time.

I have a lot of friends who have been

married longer than me, or friends that are 10 years, some plus older than me that

have more life experience and I just, I see that this is kind of how it goes. It is normal to feel like you

carry the mental load completely in regards to a certain topic at times.

Does that mean it's fair?

No, does it mean that's how it should be or that? No, I mean what the fuck does that mean even me saying

it's normal like what the fuck is normal you know what I mean it's's all subjective, it's all perspective, everyone's

hard is relative, all the tives, okay? And why I bring this up is because I want to be relatable and because that is something that I first-handed.

We have experienced a feeling maybe lonely in regards to mothering, you know, or I know the

the dynamic of you're the only like gender and your family like I'm the only female like I have a husband I have a stepson I have a son

my mother's on the other side I have a dad and a brother and then my in-law is like it just it's all like boy to sauce boy stuff going

around me on around me at all times. I'm exhausted I have to take a step out

and just like, I just want to scream sometimes.

It's easy to not feel seen in those circumstances, okay?

Just like when I hear the dynamic of a man that is a, you know, three girl dad, wife, two sisters, raised by a single mom.

You know what I mean?

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