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visit pleasure podcasts.com. Something I used to bring up more often than I haven't quite some time is the importance of not

shit-talking your spouse to all your friends. Now I know before you're like wait a second

bitch first of all you love shit talking I listen to your podcast you can be quite

the shit talk and I. I love to shit talk with the best of

them and I hate when bitches deny that it's not fun to go get brunch and talk shit about people we barely know.

What do you think women did before cell phones?

Okay?

How do you think that we got through the fucking day?

There was no real housewives of Atlanta. that we just had to talk

had to talk shit about our whore down the street okay let us pay

but when it comes to the things about your spouse that grind your gears.

I'm all for having a therapist.

I'm all for having a person you can turn to to vent, especially when you know I don't need to send

that novel that isn't going to serve my relationship in any way it's not going to get the

point across I'm hoping, dying, pleading certain it will, but it doesn't.

Historically it does not.

Sometimes when I need to just go off the rails, I just go to my notes app and just let a rip.

I'll even copy paste and go one more motherfucking response like that.

Paste sent, paste and send.

But, you know, most of the time they just stay in the notes.

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