This is the Terry Cole show and as you might have guessed I'm your host Terry Cole

For over two decades I've been a licensed psychotherapist love and boundaries

expert and I'm also the founder of the Rail of Revolution and Boundary Boot Camp.

On this show I'll bring you simple strategies based on practical psychology,

inspiring expert interviews, and my own insights and observations from my time on the front lines in the fascinating

world of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health.

Now let's get going with today's episode. Well, hello and welcome to this week's episode of the Terry Cole show.

I am Terry Cole, your host, and I've been going through the emails

that you guys are sending me because I've asked you to give me ideas of what do you really want to

master? What is it that you need to learn so that your life runs more

smoothly is easier for you? So one person wrote in and talked about the fact that she's

super indecisive and that she just can't seem to make a decision

and not ruminate about it for days and hours and wherever, also asking a lot of people

what she should do.

So if you struggle with being decisive,

this episode is for you.

And if you're super decisive, I have some news for you so this episode might be for

you as well so let's start with what are the reasons that people suffer from chronic indecision.

Well, part of it is that we have modeled behavior.

So a lot of times we saw it somewhere.

You might come from a long line of chronic indecision people, right? That is possible.

So much of what we learn, we learn in our family of origin, of course, and if you saw your

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