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🗓️ 25 July 2023
⏱️ 64 minutes
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Following from last week, in today's episode I reflect on the 3 things I would have done differently as a love addict.
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0:00.0 | My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get |
0:14.4 | more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already |
0:19.4 | there just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever |
0:26.4 | means necessary. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about |
0:32.4 | healing or intimacy disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with |
0:37.1 | first ourselves and then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today |
0:43.0 | to break unhealthy patterns and grow your self-worth. I'm Shrinella Shay, love addition coach |
0:48.7 | trauma specialist. Let's begin. Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls |
0:57.9 | Hill. I love you all so much and it's always such a joy when I get to record a new podcast |
1:04.4 | episode. So I hope that you are receiving this with a joy then I am putting out there. I hope |
1:10.0 | that this finds you on a beautiful day and that you're staying cool if you're listening to this |
1:14.9 | episode in the summertime and that you're just having great fun because you deserve it. So |
1:20.1 | today's episode I'm going to talk about three regrets that I have as a recovered love addict |
1:27.7 | over mistakes or things that would have done that this version of Shina looking back I would have |
1:34.4 | done differently. Now if you have listened to this podcast for a period of time you know that |
1:40.4 | typically when I talk about the things that have happened in the past I really shy away from |
1:46.0 | talking about things as regrets. I talk a lot about themes of self forgiveness of moving forward |
1:52.9 | of the fact that you only know what you know at the time that at every point we're all doing our |
1:59.5 | best even if our best may look crazy and hindsight or even if it looked pretty foolish in the |
2:05.7 | meantime but we didn't know what to do we are always striving to live our best life. So looking |
2:11.0 | back at the things we've done with shame or with contempt or with disgust does not help us move |
2:16.4 | forward. In fact it actually keeps us stuck. It keeps us stuck in this cycle of shame and self-criticism |
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