My guest today was Shay and oh my oh my I'm so glad you're tuning in.

She did the work on her father,

because she does not ever want him to touch her again,

to see her again, to, she doesn't want to think of him again.

She wants him to disappear off the face of the earth.

She considers him a pedophile, a monster.

She wants him to stop existing.

I'm so glad you tuned in.

It's forgiveness, possible, under circumstances like this.

Oh dears, I love that you're here and open to our time together and courage to sit with Shay and her courage.

Welcome to the podcast, let's do this thing.

Shay honey your hands up. Oh hi You know, we've never met, but I know you by heart.

So clearly.

I have a judge-your-neighbor work sheet that I'm having some trouble with the turnarounds. Okay, so when you question them first, assuming that you haven't, or have, sometimes they can be odd.

So let's look at number one on the Judge Your Neighbourable Work Sheet. Read that. Those of you new to the work this morning, Pacific time.

The worksheet is always free on our website and there are six questions on that worksheet and

Shay has filled them in and so we're going to question her answers on that work sheet. So sweetheart, read number one.

I am numb towards my dad because he sexually abused and raped me.

Okay, now you see that image in your mind's eye

where that happened, where you were being abused.

I try not to, but...

Yeah, honey, oh boy, good luck with that one.

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