From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along

with my beautiful wife, Elisa, from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for

joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663. That's 858, 876, 87663.

In today's show, we're talking about what you can do when you find yourself in the marriage you didn't dream of.

And before we get to this week's show folks, I want to let you guys know and Elisa and I want to let you know that we are holding a live webinar and

it's going to be in two days so for those of you who are listening to this on the

10th of December we are holding a live webinar on December 12th, 2013. It's called

your holiday action plan to keep joy and balance during the holidays. Again, it's this Thursday, December 12, 2013, 6 PM Pacific Standard Time,

and you can sign up, go on over to one extraordinary marriage.

dot com slash joy.

Again, that's one extraordinary marriage.

dot com slash joy.

So glad to be with you guys today

as we are in this holiday season and as we start the show

today I want to talk to you about the just share this quote with you from James

Dobson out of his book Love for Lifetime. And he says in that book,

guard your relationship against erosion as though you are defending your very lives.

And we're really going to pull that apart today because we know that a lot of

you are in the marriage that you didn't dream off. You had this image of the white picket fence

and the perfect meal cooked on the table every

night and no discord and no arguments and sex as frequently as you wanted it and we know

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