198: WANT TO OR NEED TO

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 3 December 2013

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Words are interesting and the subtle differences in meaning can often go unnoticed. Except that these words can be played over and over in your head. The words that you choose to use when you have to do something have meaning. These words carry weight not just to you but also for your spouse. This week Tony & Alisa look at two words that can lead to a ho-hum marriage or one that is extraordinary. They share the difference between "Need To" or "Want To" in your marriage and in your life. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,
0:06.4	romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:12.9	I'm Tony Deloreenso, your co-host,
0:14.8	along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.
0:16.9	From coast to coast and around the world,
0:19.5	thank you for joining us.
0:21.6	It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663. That's 858, 858, 876, 5663. In today's show, we talk about the difference between your desire and obligations to your marriage.
0:49.0	It's a complicated issue.
0:52.0	It's complicated in looking at desires and obligations and and we're really going to unpack the words and how we convey that
1:00.7	to one another and and to start I just want to share this quote from Bill Cosby.
1:05.0	I grew up with the Cosby show, grew up, you know, my sixth grade teacher Miss Burns
1:12.0	would play Bill Cosby's records in our classroom.
1:15.6	That's how old I you know I'm ancient folks you know 40 almost 40 and ancient but but
1:20.3	Bill Cosby has always had those wonderful bits of wisdom and he says in order to
1:26.8	succeed your desire for success should be greater than your fear or failure.
1:32.4	And that's really where the difference between should be greater than your fear or failure.
1:37.8	And that's really where the difference between obligation and desire come from. And we're gonna be talking about that, but we have got this iTunes hug that I just, I can't wait to share with you.
1:45.8	The title of it says, not extraordinary but outrageous.
1:49.4	I tell you, being called outrageous is just one of those fun things.
1:52.7	Who's it from?
1:53.4	This is from Lair 98.
1:56.9	Said Tony and Lisa are so outrageously solid people.
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