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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

197: What If I Love Him But The Sexual Spark Is Gone?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 27 December 2022

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Can you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with?

It's always a hard moment if you're with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn't working. So how much should you work to get the spark back?

Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual excitement into your relationship again.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

It's not just you wonder why you're less attracted to them because they're in their pajamas all the time, literally or, you know, metaphorically.

0:08.2

It's also that you are.

0:09.4

Welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast with the jams crew, Jameson Audrey, Steven and me. We...

0:36.4

Are the jams.

0:38.5

Do we still play that theme song?

0:40.7

We have not been.

0:42.0

Wow. Can we give it a rerun right now, Thomas? Can we just give everyone a little reminder of that wonderful theme song that was presented to us by Andrea?

0:51.2

Andrea Gowell.

1:14.6

Just a reminder of who we are.

1:16.5

We are answering a listener question today.

1:22.1

This one is from Ella and she emailed in to our email address for the podcast podcast at MatthewHussy.com.

1:30.3

A question about losing the spark in her relationship.

1:35.6

If you are currently in a situation with somebody where maybe there was never that chemistry and you're wondering whether you've made a mistake.

1:46.4

By staying in something where there wasn't chemistry in the first place.

1:50.6

Or you felt it early on and it started to fade or maybe you feel like you've lost that spark altogether and you're wondering what to do about that.

2:01.5

That is what this question addresses. I think you're really going to enjoy the conversation that comes afterwards.

2:06.5

There's a lot of different perspectives and there's a lot of really practical advice thrown in.

2:12.0

So enjoy this episode and if you want to email us your question for a future episode, send it to podcast at MatthewHussy.com.

2:26.3

This listener is Ella and Steven. Will you do the honors?

2:30.4

Hi, Matt and Co. Love your podcast. I listened to the episode. Why aren't you attracted to him?

2:36.3

And I found it very relevant to me, especially the part about fixing my brain.

2:40.5

I am with an amazing guy who is kind, generous and makes me feel special but I am lacking a sexual spark.

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