My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already

there is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary. Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or

intimacy disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves

and then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy

patterns and grow in your software. I'm Shinela Shay, love addition coach and trauma specialist,

let's begin. Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. So you are

going to hear two intros to today's episode. This one and what you're going to hear in just a

few moments and I am recording an extra intro because I wanted to say at the top of the episode

before I got started that if you clicked on today's title or if you're a regular subscriber,

I just wanted to really emphasize that I think today's topic is going to be good for everyone.

So today's topic is therapeutic separation with emotionally neglectful partnerships or with

neglectful partnerships. I'm going to talk more about what that means the way that I'm defining it

and why I'm talking about therapeutic separation specifically for those couples and again in

the actual intro. But I want to share at the top that I think this is something for everyone to

listen to whether or not you're a single whether or not you are in a partnership with someone that

you are not happy with or you're in a partnership with someone that you are very happy with because as

always with the topics that I share here, there's a lot of overlap. So an episode for a situation that

you may not have personal connection to because of the themes of trauma because of the themes of

showing up for yourself because of the themes of really being clear of what you want and what you

need being vital for the next steps, you can take from that topic what you need and leave the rest.

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