A lot of times people think it's the big ones, the big bombs, you know, the nuclear is like

infidelity and stuff.

But actually, the Bible was true when it tells you it's the little foxes that spoil the

vine.

Hey, everybody, welcome to Talk It Out.

We have something really good for you.

We are going to talk about relationship landmined. So, you see that effect I gave you? That was not even planned. It's just how in sync we are. So have you ever had an experience like that where everything's rolling along fine in a relationship? And then boom, you don't really even know what happened, but things are not good. They're not. Have you had that happen? Yeah, I can think of five times in the last week. Oh, wow. You know, there's... You're walking through a mine meal. It's been a time. There are certain seasons in life where it does feel like more landmines go off.

You're right.

So then I started asking the Lord, I am the common denominator.

Might I be a factor in these landmines?

He hasn't really responded quite clearly on that answer yet.

It's a good question to ask.

But I just find it fascinating.

There are certain seasons that are just more difficult, but also like relationships in general, this will happen.

They're tricky.

They are.

And it will happen because we're all just people.

Yeah.

We all have our own sensitivities, our own junk that we bring into relationships.

And so it is going to happen now and then. But thank God,

it doesn't happen all the time because when it does, it is, it is not enjoyable. It's, it's why I

would maybe like to just do this and just like lay down and I'll stroke your hair. Tell me it's

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