And so you just get honest, honesty is kind. I think that's the thing that women have

a hard time with. I would rather be honest and tell you what I'm going to do or what

I can't do, then pretend I can do everything at once or pretend I need to get back to

you right away.

I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best south means standing firm

in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real, with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all

face. Every woman listening is an opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

Okay, you guys behind the scenes were here with a episode that we had to record very

last minute. One of our guests canceled and she had a lot going on, understandable. But

we didn't have an episode to fill in. So we are recording this one on the fly. But what

we did was we took a walk and we really thought about what we needed to hear, which is often

what you guys need to hear or like to hear. So this has been coming up in our own life

and we thought about a few different places where we could talk through, but also give

our own examples to help you guys understand how we're trying to put this into play.

So the whole idea of the episode is that as women, we really have to ask for what we

need. And we've almost been trained to appease other people. And then what happens is you

might have a couple kids, you might have a demanding career or you have a house to take

care of or a space to take care of. And then what happens is you start to feel resentful

and you start to feel like not yourself. And you get really critical of yourself like,

wow, I thought I was going to be a much more patient mother. I thought I was going

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