195. Visibility, Vulnerability, Attention, and Being Seen

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 April 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

How often have you immediately blurted out "You too!" when somebody compliments you?

"You have such pretty hair!" "You too!"

"You're so smart!" "You too!"

"You're so beautiful." "You too!"

It's like we can't stand to just sit and HOLD attention when it's given to us…we have to throw it back as fast as we can. Why?

Because we've trained ourselves to be uncomfortable holding it.

Because we don't think of ourselves as "attention-seekers."

Here's the thing: attention-seeking is not the same as receiving attention. And until we learn that lesson, we're never going to be comfortable holding attention from others…and we're never going to be able to have the supportive relationship we dream about where we are known, loved, and seen for exactly who we are.

Let's talk about VISIBILITY, VULNERABILITY, ATTENTION, and BEING SEEN…without feeling the need to get everyone's eyes off of us as fast as possible.

WORK WITH BEATRICE:

Join Magnetic Woman, a five-week group program on how to ELEVATE and UPGRADE your dating life through getting CLEAR, SOLID, and GROUNDED in your standards and deal breakers for a relationship: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/magnetic-woman/

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice,
0:13.2	founder of the Self-Tress Alchemy Program formerly known as Self-Love Overcoat Penancy, T-Addict,
0:19.6	and a Self-Tress Embodiment Coach teacher and mentor for deep, luxed bitches who aren't
0:24.7	afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine
0:29.4	everything that you think you have to fix about yourself. You're people pleasing,
0:33.8	codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can
0:38.6	alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, reality-bending levels of self-trust
0:44.0	and next-level self-acceptance. In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.
0:49.2	Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love,
0:54.6	manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the dark side,
0:59.4	where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality,
1:04.2	mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self-Love, redefine.
1:11.3	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix.
1:15.2	Hello, and welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host,
1:21.0	and I have two things to share with you before we start this episode. First, I have a free
1:27.2	masterclass called Hold the Standard coming up on April 13th. That's a Thursday at 5 p.m.
1:35.5	PST. This is going to be a big conversation around the frequency and the energy behind
1:42.9	being able to hold standards in dating and what's actually required. It's going to be a really
1:48.7	good conversation. You won't want to miss it, especially if you're someone who creates standards,
1:55.7	sets standards, and you get shiny objects syndrome. You go for the situation, even though you want
2:01.1	the relationship, you can't maintain standards, or you have trouble even getting clear on what you
2:05.5	want, or you get wishy-washy with them once someone comes your way who doesn't meet your standards.
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