196. Are You EMBODYING Your Standards in Dating?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 13 April 2023
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
When you walk into a designer store, you do it differently than you would walk into a Walmart.
You enter with a different price tag in mind. You probably already know what you want—or at least know that you're there to make a purchase, not browse. You're not wasting your own time or anyone else's.
Because of the way Louis Vuitton conducts itself through marketing, atmosphere, and treatment of their products, it calls you to a higher standard yourself, because the energy is different.
The same principle applies to dating. When you embody your standards and uplevel your frequency, people feel that and respond to it—you don't even have to say it to them. They just know.
It's time to dive past the surface level of standard-setting and start embodying the standards we've supposedly set for ourselves.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice, |
| 0:13.2 | founder of the Self-Tress Alchemy Program formerly known as Self-Love Overcoat Penancy, T-Addict, |
| 0:19.6 | and a Self-Tress Embodiment Coach teacher and mentor for deep, luxed bitches who aren't |
| 0:24.7 | afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine |
| 0:29.4 | everything that you think you have to fix about yourself. You're people pleasing, |
| 0:33.8 | codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can |
| 0:38.6 | alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, reality-bending levels of self-trust |
| 0:44.0 | and next-level self-acceptance. In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing. |
| 0:49.2 | Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love, |
| 0:54.6 | manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the dark side, |
| 0:59.4 | where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality, |
| 1:04.2 | mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self-Love, redefine. |
| 1:11.3 | Welcome to the Self-Love Fix. Hello, and welcome back to the podcast. My name is Beatrice, |
| 1:18.9 | and I'm your host, and I have some announcements. First, we have the free masterclass |
| 1:24.0 | happening tonight at 5 p.m. PST April 13th, and it's called Hold the Standard. |
| 1:31.3 | If you're single and dating, and you're not signed up for the Hold the Standard Masterclass, |
| 1:36.0 | you need to be signed up. The link is in the description box below the episode. This is a masterclass. |
| 1:42.1 | I'll be running it live in our private group where I'll be teaching on the energy and frequency |
| 1:48.3 | behind actually attracting someone who meets your standards. If you say you have standards, |
| 1:53.1 | and you are not actually attracting people who meet them, or if you've never come across someone |
| 1:58.4 | who actually meets your standards, you need to be in this masterclass. I remember there was a time |
| 2:02.1 | where I convinced myself, like, oh, I have all these standards, or this is how it's going to be in |
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