195: Do You Want Love Or Do You Want to Be Picked So You Feel Worthy?
The Sabrina Zohar Show
Sabrina Zohar
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🗓️ 27 March 2026
⏱️ 37 minutes
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| 0:50.2 | We ask what if questions. What if they come back? What if they don't want me? |
| 0:53.9 | What if they leave me? But the question I actually think we need to ask is, what if you don't actually want a relationship? What if you want proof? Proof that you're enough. Proof that you're lovable. Proof that you're worth choosing. And the second you get the proof, you're either going to lose interest or you'll find something wrong and burn it to the fucking ground. And here's the |
| 1:11.0 | truth, our truth number three to be exact. Some of you aren't actually dating for partnership. |
| 1:15.0 | You're dating for validation. And there's a massive fucking difference because one build a life |
| 1:18.8 | and the other just feeds a wound that will never stay full. Hello, hello, hello. |
| 1:24.0 | And welcome to another episode of the Sabrina Zohar show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host. Hello, babes. Welcome back to episode three of the Hard Truth series. Remember, episode one, we talked about being addicted to potential. Love it. Episode two, we talked about how you can't heal your way out of a bad fucking match. And today we're going to go deeper. What if the things that you're chasing aren't love at all? |
| 1:45.2 | I asked you guys whether you were dating for love or validation. |
| 1:47.5 | And a lot of you had questions. |
| 2:01.6 | So we're going to get into all of that today. And don't forget, as always, at the end, we have our tool of the week. Now, do I put it at the end to keep you? Yeah. Yeah, no shit. but that's what I ask for you because guys, okay, book time is coming and I got a mama got put her ego aside because it's really hard for me to ask for things. And what I, the only thing I ask is that you guys pre-order the book. I don't think maybe most people don't know. I didn't either. Pre-ordering a book is how the author gets on the New York Times list. That's how we get Target and Walmart to know, hey, people want to |
| 2:17.7 | bring us book because look how many people are buying it pre-order. So, baby, I need any time it starts to go on, which don't worry, you'll find out when it does. By October 13th, when the book comes out, we got a pre-order prior. So don't worry, I'm going to do a book tour. I'm going to come and see you guys. We're going to do meet and greets. I can't fucking wait. And you guys will |
| 2:33.8 | also get a lot of freebies if you pre-order the book because Mama wants to say. and see you guys. We're going to do meet and greets. I can't fucking wait. And you guys will also |
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