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On Attachment

#19: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

On Attachment

Stephanie Rigg

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education, Relationships

51K Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2022

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, we're diving into the challenging topic of how to know whether and when to walk away from a relationship that isn't working. I offer you five guiding questions that will lead you to greater clarity, insight and awareness in making the decision of whether to stay and keep trying, or whether it's time to go. Click here to sign up for my break-up course, Higher Love Download the FREE Anxious Attachment Starter Kit here Additional Resources Join Healing Anxious Attachment...

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0:00.0

Welcome to On Attachment, a place to learn about how attachment shapes the way we experience

0:09.3

dating, love and relationships. I'm your host, relationship coach and attachment expert,

0:16.0

Stephanie Rigg, and I'm really glad you're here.

0:24.2

Hey, every day. and I'm really glad you're here. Hey everybody, welcome back to another episode of On Attachment.

0:28.2

So in today's episode, we're talking all about when to leave a relationship,

0:34.1

five questions to help you decide whether to stay or go. So this is a big topic and it's not

0:41.8

something that I want to suggest is an easy decision to make because obviously it isn't.

0:49.0

It's complicated. It's messy. There's lots of layers and lots of factors and it can feel like an impossible

0:58.3

decision to make. And even if we feel like we know the answer, actually following through

1:04.4

and pulling the trigger can feel incredibly challenging and overwhelming and just want to validate the bigness of it all because

1:13.7

it is. It is big and that's totally okay if you're in that place and you're feeling overwhelmed

1:22.1

by the prospect of having to level with these questions and these truths.

1:28.1

So before I do that, I just want to let you all know that I'm launching a new course

1:34.5

in the coming weeks called Higher Love.

1:36.6

It's all about moving on from a relationship ending and not just moving on, processing

1:43.3

the grief and really allowing yourself

1:45.3

to process the breakup in a healthy way, honoring the feelings that come with that, getting

1:51.2

clear around what happened, making sure that you're distilling down what happened into

1:56.3

lessons and learning so that it's, you know, not in vain. And then also figuring out what the

2:02.8

future looks like, who you want to be, who you want to be in relationship, what kind of, you know,

2:08.8

values you want to bring into your next relationship, what you're available for, all of those

2:13.3

things. So it's powerful. It's sort of a beautiful combination of honoring the past while

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