From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my wife, Elisa, from coast to coast and around the world.

Thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love and commitment.

Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663.

That's 858, 876,56-66-63. And in today's show, we're going to talk about treating your spouse

like a grown-up instead of like a child. Mm, this is going to be a big one and for some of you this is going to be a challenge.

And I want you to think about what Merrill Street, the actor, said here in this quote,

you can't get spoiled if you do your own ironing.

And for those of you out there that like ironing work with me here.

Let's go with what the message is here. If you have to do things for yourself, you can't get that spoiled.

And it's going to play out in different dynamics as we talk through the next 30 minutes together.

But before we go there, I want to share this hug

that we received on iTunes.

Those of you that are new to the show,

you may have found us through iTunes,

those of you have been listening for a while. We know that the reviews that you put up on iTunes

Impact

People looking for marriage help we often receive messages from somebody saying I read the

reviews on iTunes and that's why I decided to listen to your show. So if you haven't

left a reviewer rating on iTunes we would love for you to go there and share your thoughts on how one

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