Have you ever had someone tell you on the third date that they've never felt this way about anyone that you're different?

And they just like, no.

And oh my God, this feels so special and different.

And part of you was like, oh my God, finally.

Like someone finally gets it, isn't afraid to go all in. But then there's another part of you. It might be a lot of quieter that's like, well, how do they know that? Like you don't even know my fucking middle name. You haven't seen me stressed.

You haven't seen me stick.

You haven't seen me bored.

And the thing is, it's like that intensity feels like intimacy,

but they're not the same.

Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to another episode of the Sabrina Zohar Show. My name is Sabrina Zohar, and I am your host. Welcome back, babes. Today I'm really excited. I'm going to be breaking down why that rush when someone comes on strong might be a sign that something is missing, not that something is there. And I want you to stick around at the end because I've got a tool called the reality check pause that you can use in real time when you're in the middle of that whirlwind to figure out if it's real or if you're fucking being played. And guys, as always, don't forget to rate and review the show. Leave a comment, share it with a friend. And if you guys need anything. We've got the foundation course. We have the going slow course. We've got resources, whatever you want. Check it all out

at Sabrina ZOR.com. But first, let's talk about what's actually happening in your brain when

this happens. And side note, don't forget, if you guys want to add free, that is an option. I get it,

not for everybody. So don't forget to check that out. Okay. Let's talk about,

and I want to kind of zoom out, because I think we hear love bombing, and I remember even like when Love Island was going on and everyone's like, Jeremiah's love bombing her. And it's like, there is a difference, right? I think some people see love bombing as like they're coming on strong. and it's like, okay, no, those are two separate things. You can have someone that comes on strong,

and then there's love bombing.

To me, love bombing, it's not always at a malice.

Like I even had a friend I had to talk to the other day by the time this comes out, luckily

it'll be a couple of weeks after. But I had a friend the other day that I was talking to. and he kept saying, no, no, I was just like really, you know,

it was like really into this person.

And I was like, motherfucker, we need to talk.

And I was like, you love bomb him.

He's like, no, I didn't.

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