184: What if you didn't know who he was?
This Is Actually Happening
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4.6 • 9.9K Ratings
🗓️ 30 March 2021
⏱️ 57 minutes
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Summary
“No matter how hard you fight against having no change in your life, it’s going to come anyway.”
Producers: Whit Missildine
Episode Summary: Growing up in an environment of constant change, a woman vows to find a different path to stability, only to have a shocking revelation turn her world upside down
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Content/Trigger Warnings: suicidal ideation, domestic abuse, child neglect, explicit language
Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This is actually happening features real experiences that often include traumatic events. |
| 0:04.2 | Please consult the show notes for specific content warnings on each episode |
| 0:07.6 | and for more information about support services. |
| 0:17.2 | No matter how hard you fight against having no change in your life, it's going to come anyway. |
| 0:24.0 | Instead of just assuming it's not going to happen, |
| 0:26.4 | or doing everything you can to prevent it from happening, |
| 0:29.3 | it makes much more sense to prepare for it, because change is going to happen. |
| 0:42.1 | From Wondry, I'm Whit Missildine. |
| 0:45.4 | You are listening to this is actually happening. |
| 0:48.1 | Episode 184. |
| 0:58.1 | What if you didn't know who he was? |
| 1:02.1 | Hey, prime members, you can listen to this is actually happening. |
| 1:10.1 | Add free on Amazon Music. |
| 1:12.1 | Download the app today. |
| 1:14.1 | Hi there Wondry listeners. |
| 1:16.1 | Hanna and Sruti here from TrueCram Podcast Red handed. |
| 1:19.1 | Your favourite podcast red handed. |
| 1:21.1 | We just wanted to say how excited we are to be included in Amazon Music |
| 1:24.1 | and Wondry's best podcasts of the year as chosen by their listeners, which is you. |
| 1:29.1 | So thank you so much to everyone who listened to us voted for us, |
| 1:32.1 | or the things you do for us. |
| 1:34.1 | Any of you out there who haven't checked out Red handed, what are you doing? |
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