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179 – Coffee with the Dobber: Flow

Porn Free Radio

Matt Dobschuetz

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8677 Ratings

🗓️ 15 November 2018

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Are you overwhelmed getting started going porn free?

Or have you been in recovery, a while, and gotten bored? Maybe you've lost some focus or feel apathetic.

Join Matt for a cup of coffee and a discussion about the psychological concept of Flow.

You'll learn why staying in a state overwhelm or boredom is not good for your overall success, satisfaction, and happiness.

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0:00.0

Porn for Radio episode 179. Now, chances are if you're listening to this podcast, you fall into one or two

0:08.0

categories. Either you're new to recovery, and a lot of the stuff that we're talking about

0:14.7

is exciting you. Maybe you're getting some hope from it, but you're overwhelmed on some level.

0:21.5

Either you've just had a relapse or you've just come to a greater understanding that porn

0:26.8

isn't serving you.

0:28.5

But you're not sure how to move forward.

0:31.4

You haven't really created a plan.

0:34.6

You've tried to maybe implement one thing or another, but a lot of your recent experience with

0:40.3

trying to quit porn is one of failure. So that's category one. Category two is you're a little

0:47.5

farther along. You've actually tried some tools or put some things in place. Maybe you've

0:54.0

gone to a group or you've created a plan.

0:57.3

Maybe you've changed your home environment a little bit. And you've gotten some success,

1:02.2

maybe 30 days or 60 days porn free. You've hit a milestone. But you're realizing your current

1:09.3

experience with recovery right now is kind of boredom.

1:14.0

You're a little bored, a little apathetic.

1:17.7

You know, some of the initial reasons that caused you to move towards being porn free,

1:24.1

you know, maybe that sort of dramatic relapse or that, um, rock bottom

1:30.0

moment. They're farther in the rearview mirror. And your why, your reason for doing this gets a

1:37.7

little fogier. It's not quite as focused. So whether you're in category one or category two, this podcast is for you today.

1:47.0

On today's show, we're talking about the idea of flow.

1:50.9

And this was developed by psychologist Mihai Chiksen Mihaihi.

1:57.6

That's right.

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