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🗓️ 27 April 2021
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I believe that in many ways, the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. Good quality relationships help us with our physical health, our mental health and our happiness.
Today, I’m delighted to welcome two fantastic guests who are experts on how we can all build exceptional relationships. David Bradford and Carole Robin taught interpersonal skills to MBA students for a combined seventy-five years in their legendary Stanford course, Interpersonal Dynamics (affectionately known to students as “Touchy-Feely”). They have also coached and consulted with hundreds of executives all over the globe. Now, they’ve brought their invaluable lessons to all of us, in their fabulous book Connect: Building Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends and Colleagues.
We begin the conversation by defining what exceptional relationships are and why it is so important for us to have them in our lives. We talk about the concept of being ‘over the net’, which is a brilliant tool that you can use in interactions with others to make sure that you’re only ever owning your reality – not telling other people how they’re feeling or what they’re doing wrong. We talk about the risk involved in raising issues in a relationship and how we might prefer to avoid confrontation. But while there’s a risk in expressing your feelings, there is a cost to silence. David and Carole share a powerful example of a major setback in their own friendship, and how they managed to overcome it.
There’s much more to discover in this conversation, including thoughts on parent-child relationships, friendships that are no longer nourishing, and how we can improve our digital interactions. David and Carole’s world-famous course may be taught around leadership, but their wisdom is relevant to us all. I thoroughly enjoyed having this conversation and I hope you enjoy listening.
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0:00.0 | Where has this been all my life? |
0:03.0 | How come nobody ever taught me how to handle a conflict productively? |
0:07.9 | How come nobody ever taught me that actually conflict can build an even stronger relationship? |
0:14.1 | How come nobody ever told me more about how to learn about myself? |
0:18.8 | You have a choice to take a risk and become better known. |
0:22.5 | You have a choice to get more curious. |
0:25.7 | You have a choice about receiving a piece of feedback as a gift and a data with which you can make more choices. |
0:34.4 | You have a choice about whether or not you want to keep learning and growing. |
0:39.2 | Hi, my name is Ron Gancastue. Welcome to Feel Better Live More. |
0:45.9 | Today's conversation is all about relationships and as you may have heard me say before, |
0:56.4 | the quality of our relationships in many ways determines the quality of our lives. |
1:02.6 | Yes, it feels good to have close, nourishing relationships, |
1:07.3 | but it's so much more than just feeling good. |
1:10.0 | Good quality relationships help us with our physical health, our mental health and our happiness. |
1:17.2 | On today's show, I am delighted to welcome two fantastic guests who are without question |
1:23.9 | experts on how we can all build exceptional relationships. |
1:29.8 | David Bradford and Carol Robin have taught interpersonal skills to MBA students at the prestigious |
1:37.2 | Stanford University for combined 75 years in their legendary course, officially called |
1:44.4 | In-Suppersonal Dynamics, but affectionately known to the students as Tuchee Feely. |
1:50.7 | They've also coached and consulted with thousands of executives all over the globe. |
1:55.8 | And now they've brought their invaluable lessons to all of us in their fabulous book, |
2:01.6 | Connect, Building, Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends and Colleagues. |
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