172. Here's How to ACTUALLY Attract an Emotionally Available and Commitment-Ready Partner
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2022
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
Does it feel like you've become a magnet to every emotionally unavailable, commitment-phobic person in the dating pool? Have you been blaming it on this generation's idea of dating, the fickleness of dating apps, or just about any other excuse you can come up with?
Bad news: it's none of those things. It's you.
Ultimately, it's not that we're attracting emotionally unavailable partners…it's that we're making ourselves available to them. We're looking for the first thing that crosses our path, whether that person is truly in alignment with what we consciously desire or not, because our unconscious desires are actually the ones running the show.
How do you escape this cycle? Good news: as always, I'm here to tell you what you need to hear, even if it's not what you want to hear. Listen now to find out how to find the partnership you truly want.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Beatrice. I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a matcha stand, and the creator of the |
| 0:09.8 | self-love over codependency program. This podcast is all about helping you move from shame, |
| 0:15.9 | people pleasing, codependency, and low self-esteem and fully into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic |
| 0:25.8 | self-love through healing the inner child, spirituality, and manifestation. Now, I won't lie in |
| 0:33.7 | addition to the last tears and the joy. You may be triggered from time to time when tuning in, |
| 0:40.8 | but these triggers will lead to a deep dive into who you really are, all you desire, and the |
| 0:48.7 | confidence to demand more out of your life. Welcome to the self-love fix where you get your dose of self-love tips. |
| 1:01.6 | Hello, and welcome back to the self-love fix podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I am your host this week. |
| 1:10.5 | Oh my god, this week I have such a good episode for you. It's giving a little dash of shadow work, |
| 1:18.8 | with also a practical way to shift your experience with dating and relationships if you're already |
| 1:27.1 | in one. Yeah, this one's gonna be good. Bookmarker, no, just kidding. Okay, but before we dive into the |
| 1:33.6 | episode, the title of the episode, all the things, I want to start by letting you know we have a partial |
| 1:40.8 | solar eclipse in the sign of Scorpio on October 25th at 3.49 am, I believe it is, PST Pacific time, |
| 1:51.2 | and this partial solar eclipse is happening at the south node. Oh my god, this is huge. Okay, |
| 1:57.1 | eclipses are always a huge moment of quick shifts, quick changes, quick transformations, and |
| 2:04.2 | with it being in the sign of Scorpio, Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth, the sign of deep |
| 2:11.9 | levels of transformation. It's the sign of the deals with the unconscious because its modern ruler |
| 2:18.4 | is Pluto and Pluto is all about all the deep dark unconscious taboo things that people don't want to |
| 2:24.1 | face, people don't want to see. So this has the potential to be so transformative for you. So I |
| 2:28.9 | want to talk a little bit about how this partial solar eclipse in Scorpio at the south node will |
| 2:34.8 | impact you. First of all, it is happening at two degrees in the sign of Scorpio and the second |
| 2:41.2 | degree in astrology, using degree theory, adds a Torian touch to the sea eclipse and when I say |
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