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Today I want to talk about why some people are rude

hurtful or just plain jerks

But before we begin I want to thank each and every one of you for writing reviews for the Shaline show

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I'm just curious how we found each other anyways on to today's program and as always thank you for being here

So let's talk about why people are sometimes rude or just jerks

They're just not polite they come across like they just don't have much thought for other people's feelings

They jumped down your throat and sometimes it seems like they don't realize you're being a jerk and sometimes we're pretty sure that they know

And they're not nice and they're rude and they're not conscientious of how other people feel and I want to talk to you about why that is

Why are some people that way because I think that'll help in dealing with them

I think it's going to make it easier when you encounter these kind of people not that I'm ever going to excuse that kind of behavior

And certainly not to say that there's ever been a time that I haven't been rude

I mean if you're a human being there's a time when maybe you didn't intend to be rude or you didn't intend to be a jerk or to hurt someone's feelings

But you did and I can say that there's probably been a couple of instances in my life where I'm like I don't care

I really do not care if I hurt their feelings because I don't like them and they were rude first like you know

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