Why is it so uncomfortable and so hard and so fucking awkward to make friends as an adult?

We have vehicles.

We can go places.

We don't have a curfew.

We have a place that we live. We could

invite people over to. Why does it feel so damn uncomfortable? And be real, have you ever

Googled how to make friends as an adult? I definitely have Googled this. And if you have,

I need you to send me an Instagram message right now. send me a DM, let me know that you too

have Googled that. It is hard to make friends as an adult, but this is a bad ass guide for

doing just that. Just a few years back, I felt very insecure in friendship and adult friends.

I didn't have many at all. And the ones that I did have, they just

weren't all that deep. And I was longing for those soul connections. I was longing for rich,

friendship, depth of connection in my relationships. And I didn't know how to get it. And I was

dealing with so much social anxiety and feelings of unworthiness and a lot of trauma

actually in my history with friends. And I'm going to share with you everything I did from

switching my mindset to how I showed up as a friend, to the activities that I do with my friends.

I'm going to share it all with you. This is a badass guide. So buckle up. We are about to unpack this. If you are feeling insecure in your friendship

situation right now, first of all, I want to remind you, it's a lot easier to make friends

in high school or in college or if you are in a workplace with a lot of individuals that, you know,

are similar in age and interests and whatever, it's easier when we're forced to be around

people to make friends. It's a whole lot harder when we become adults and we have a lot of

responsibilities and we have jobs that occupy a lot of our time and we don't have a lot of opportunities for downtime or chill

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