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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#165: How to Talk with Your Spouse About ANYTHING

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 26 June 2017

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Some things aren’t worth talking about. Whenever you bring them up with your spouse, you end up in an argument. It’s easier to just let it go. But is it good for your marriage? On this Java with Juli you’ll hear practical advice about how to talk about ANYTHING with your spouse –without the argument. Grab your coffee and join us!

Guest: Dr. David Clarke

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, I'm Julie Slattery here with Job with Julie, and I've got a treat for you today.

0:23.7

I always say that because I always love these conversations. I love my guests, and you're certainly no exception. Dr. David Clark, you have been on the show with us before. It's been a while, though. It has been a while. And this is not just a treat. It's a special treat. It is a special treat. I'm sure that's what you meant to say. No, it's an extra special treat. How's that?

0:21.0

Well, and I an extra special treat.

0:23.3

How's that?

0:23.8

Well, and I feel the same way.

0:25.0

Well, good.

0:25.5

I flew from Tampa to be here. No, you did. That says it all. I'm telling you. You flew from Tampa to be at Focus on the family. We're just kind of a leftover. Okay, that's true.

0:34.4

And we're going to be honest.

0:35.5

We're talking about communication today.

0:37.1

That's Jill.

0:37.3

We've got to be honest.

0:39.0

I'm doing both.

0:40.1

Hey, but that's all right.

0:41.0

I don't mind you. We're going to be honest. We're talking about communication today. That's Jill. We've got to be honest.

0:39.1

I'm doing both.

0:40.1

Hey, but that's all right.

0:41.0

I don't mind just hanging on focus. I'm going on and focus every now and then. Well, they love you. I mentioned your name over there, and they say, we love Julie. They do. That's sweet. I love them too. Yeah. So, well, anyway, thanks for coming a little bit early so we could do a couple recordings while you're here.

0:56.1

My pleasure.

0:56.4

And you are from Tampa. And every time I hear people from tampon, tampons, I say it. Don't say that. Stop that. I say they're tampons. I can't help it. And we fly. Tampons fly into a rage. What is it? What are you legitimately? Tampons? It is. It is. I'm sorry. That's just the way it is. We embrace it. That's so funny. I never did that. You're officially tampons, but that's the first thing I think. I think so. I think that's what it is. Some people fight it. I've learned to accept it. Well, good. That's just hilarious. I didn't mean to bring that up, but since we did, it's kind of fun. That's job with Julie. You never know what's going to come up. But you are a psychologist and spend your days working with married couples, working with individuals, and so not only do you write the books and you've written some great ones, but every day you face real clients, real people that are dealing with the kind of issues you write on.

1:49.5

And that tends to keep us honest, doesn't it?

1:51.5

It does.

1:52.3

I think so many authors lose touch with people and a few years removed.

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