#164: How to Work Through Missed Expectations in Marriage
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
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🗓️ 19 June 2017
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
Marriage doesn’t always turn out the way you think it will. Maybe your husband isn’t quite the gentleman he was when you were dating. Sex isn’t as fun as you were told it would be. He’s not spending as much time with the kids as you’d like. What do you do when marriage doesn’t go as expected? Grab your coffee and join Dr. Juli to find out!
Guest: Rhonda Stoppe
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Java with Julie and this is Julie Slattery and I'm having coffee with Rhonda Stop. |
| 0:05.0 | Did I say your last name were it, right? Stoppy. Stoppy. Stoppy. That's even more fun than stop. |
| 0:12.0 | I like it. |
| 0:13.0 | What's really fun is it used to be Von Stauffa until his family changed it when they came through Ellis Island. |
| 0:18.0 | So Von Stauffa? Did I get that right? |
| 0:22.6 | Yes, but it's Stoppy. |
| 0:24.6 | Okay, I like that. |
| 0:25.6 | Stoppy. |
| 0:26.6 | That's a fun nickname. |
| 0:27.6 | So I might just have to call you Stoppy. |
| 0:30.6 | That's actually what I call my husband always. |
| 0:32.6 | Okay, very cute. |
| 0:34.6 | Well, we're going to talk about marriage today and uh you have written a number of different |
| 0:39.3 | things on marriage even an e-book on sexuality which we may get into since we talk a lot on that |
| 0:45.5 | topic at job with julie but that book i have right in front of me is called if my husband would |
| 0:51.5 | change i'd be happy and other myths wives believe. |
| 0:56.5 | So that title right there is just very intriguing because it hits a core that I think |
| 1:03.0 | we all go into marriage with a lot of myths. |
| 1:06.1 | And I don't know how long it took for you to get over the myths you believed, but I think |
| 1:10.6 | I'm still |
| 1:10.9 | getting over some of mine. How about you? Yes. Isn't that true? Yeah. And you've been married, |
| 1:17.1 | you've been married how long? 35 years. Okay, you are, you are approaching the expertise realm here. |
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