159. You Hold the Power to Attract the Relationship You've Always Wanted
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 9 June 2022
⏱️ 42 minutes
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Summary
For most of us love is (or at least was) an elusive mystery we could only dream of. That's why today I'm so excited to welcome my guest Crystal Irom, a Love Coach specifically for successful women. As if women didn't have it hard enough these days, amiright?
Why is it that especially women who are successful in every other aspect of their lives struggle to find someone to love? Is it because men are intimidated? Are these women (possibly you) doomed to roam the world biding your time in between horrible dates and dead-end relationships? We examine all of this and more in the latest episode of The Self-Love Fix Podcast along with:
- How to adjust how you present yourself
- What settling really means
- How to love yourself before you love someone else
Men and women are different, and that includes what's important to men in terms of a relationship. The key is knowing the parts of yourself that pave the way for connection, and understanding that to be in love means to be vulnerable. It also means appreciating yourself for who you are, and being unapologetically you.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | For some women, it's their age. |
| 0:02.3 | You know, they say, I'm over 39, I'm over 45, |
| 0:05.1 | I'm over 55, whatever it is. |
| 0:07.4 | Therefore, I'm not gonna be able to get what I want. |
| 0:09.7 | For some women, it's like a muddy issue. |
| 0:11.7 | Like I have death from school or, you know, |
| 0:14.6 | for single moms, a lot of single moms feel like |
| 0:17.0 | because I have kids and I'm divorced |
| 0:19.3 | or I'm not with my kids father, |
| 0:21.2 | I won't be able to have love. |
| 0:22.6 | Right? So it's like every woman has a thing |
| 0:25.0 | where she feels like this is the reason |
| 0:27.3 | that I cannot have love. |
| 0:28.9 | And I've got to see any of those be a reason |
| 0:31.6 | that someone can actually have love. |
| 0:33.2 | Right? Like there's a lid for every pot. |
| 0:35.5 | Hello, I'm Beatrice. |
| 0:40.4 | I'm a self-love embodiment coach, a matcha stan |
| 0:43.7 | and the creator of the self-love over codepennancy program. |
| 0:47.7 | This podcast is all about helping you move from shame, |
| 0:51.4 | people pleasing, codepennancy and low self esteem |
| 0:55.4 | and fully into alignment, expansion |
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