Another part that I really appreciated was when Claire was talking about how you cannot

control your child and if you listen to that part she was referring to things like when

we say stop hitting or don't throw that toy you cannot draw on the wall and that is

honestly 100% my first reaction when I see someone hitting my first reaction is to say

stop hitting and instead using language of okay you see what the situation is you become

aware and then you act as their helper I'm Amy and I'm Abby and as women we are constantly

comparing ourselves to others but your life isn't supposed to look like hers being your

best self means standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose

we get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all

face every woman listening it's an opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself

okay so we're doing something a little bit different this week if you listen to last

weeks episode with Claire learner you know that we just went into so much detail on kiddos

who are big reactors so think about these kiddos as the ones where the deep breaths just

simply don't work it's harder to you know calm them down in the really tough situations

the things that the scripts say and that the discipline experts say they just don't work

as well and maybe you have other kiddos that you know those things do work but then you

have one child that things are just a little bit harder or as we're learning they just

need to be treated in a different way they just need to be disciplined and comforted

in a slightly different way so today we're Amy and I are going to jump on the mics and

talk through just really what we learned from Claire how we're implementing it into our

life and just some of the backup stories it was an awesome interview it went it went almost

the full hour but knowing also that there's a lot more behind the scenes that Amy and I

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