Hello there my little butter scotches it's Stephen Hussie here just reporting from

Mary old England where we're getting to the end of February which is good news for me

because I don't like it when it gets dark at like 5 p.m. here in England and I

can't go for my little evening run because the park gets you know it's like

pitch black, can't really see that much out and I think I love my little run after

work but you know I'm trying to switch more to doing exercise in the morning but

I'm not a morning exercise guy I know everyone loves doing that but that is

on what I feel like in the morning I feel like reading a book, getting myself

set up for the day, maybe meditating but I don't really love doing morning

exercise so maybe we'll experiment with fixing that anyway I hope you're

well wherever you are in the world I'm just setting up today's episode where

Matthew is going to be talking about the ever underrated topic of ways to get a

guy to make a move on you, ways to get anyone to make a move on you but how do

you actually you know people get told that's I mean especially women we know

right women get told that they have to wait for someone to put in the effort to

make the move to start the conversation and that's just this massive fallacy

like I've noticed people over my decade of doing this you know the people who

are good at dating, at getting out there, at actually starting things up when

they're single they are able to get someone to make the move they're able to

make it easier for someone to talk to them they have all kinds of ways of

being able to bridge that gap when you see someone across the room how do you

actually do something how do you be proactive in this moment without feeling

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