How you define, commit me, shapes your entire reality of how you make decisions.

Welcome to the Love Life podcast with me, Matthew Hussey and my brother, Stephen Hussey.

Welcome, Peaches, puddings, pickles, plums and pears. And you are back with the two frayers.

If you speak French, that means brother. Hello, Matthew.

So are we actually going to use that?

I see. That's straight in the podcast. That's how it works.

You wrote an email the other day to our entire mailing list and called them pickles in the email.

I did, sir.

Now that got sent without any approval from me because I might have changed the word pickles, had I had the chance to see it before it went out.

That's why people hide things from you. So that sort of mistakes like that don't happen.

Well, mistakes like me removing the word. Do you know, not everyone knows our personalities, Steve.

That could just be a brand new person on the mailing list whose first email they got refers to them as pickle.

It's quite sweet, isn't it? It's affectionate.

I mean, if you hear your tone of voice, maybe, but in an email, I don't know if it reads the same.

Well, fair enough.

Steve, before we get started today, will you do us the honours of reading an email from one of our listeners?

Yes. Well, we've had a lovely one in the email inbox podcast.mathuacie.com.

If you want a seamless one, this is from Miss Bell, who says, I just wanted to let you know that you have gotten me through the hardest divorce and hardest two years of my life.

I listen to a certain four of your podcasts. What if he changes for someone else? What if I feel bad for a toxic partner?

When to quit a relationship and how to tell you're in a relationship with a narcissist over and over every day?

It seems like you can see my life and are telling me just what I need in that moment day or week.

Your voices are so calming and easy to listen to. I've been in therapy for a year. And while that has been helpful,

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