I know that for most of my life, it always felt like commitment was giving something up.

It always felt like a sacrifice.

There was always some glorification of the other, whatever the other may be.

Some idea of freedom, some idea of single life.

But I remember thinking, with this person, I am ready to actually build something.

I'm excited to build something.

So as many of you know, a couple of weeks ago, I got engaged.

I suppose my love life has always been very interesting because even though I've lived out

my love life very much in private, people have always very publicly asked

me what my relationship status is.

Imagine your grandmother or your mother at the Thanksgiving table,

pressuring you and saying, why aren't you married yet?

Why don't you have a partner?

Imagine that times a million.

And that's been my life for the last decade.

It's also interesting to be getting engaged at a time when

so many of our audience, so many of you who follow me are asking me why men

won't commit.

Do we live in an era where just the norm is men not wanting to commit,

not wanting a real relationship?

And so we thought we'd take this opportunity to make a video about the

signs that someone is actually getting more serious

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