146. Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?: Quit Porn Strategist King David

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2021

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time.

King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/.

IN THIS EPISODE:

3:25 David's story

19:30 Porn is a drug

21:00 Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing

25:25 You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting

25:40 There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn

28:20 Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction

30:00 You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn

35:00 Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like

35:40 How porn changes your view of sex and women

38:30 Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn

39:40 How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn?

42:00 Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually

44:50 If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem!

46:10 It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship

47:00 38% of millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse

49:00 With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme”

50:20 There's no communication in porn

51:50 One-third of all porn viewers are women

52:30 Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something

56:40 Couples need to communicate about sex

59:00 David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program

Transcript

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0:00.0	From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Benker Show,
0:11.6	where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.
0:15.8	Join us here every week as we challenge the culture's hugely flawed narratives about men, women, sex, and love.
0:22.0	From coast to coast and from around the world, thank you for joining us.
0:29.2	So I'm covering a very delicate but important topic today, and that's porn.
0:36.3	I had planned on discussing this subject for a while now,
0:39.4	but I was waiting for the right guest because I'm really not the right person to cover
0:43.3	this topic on my own. However, I do need to address it because I have had a handful of
0:50.1	single clients who talk about what a big issue porn is with men today. And I've had married
0:57.4	clients whose husbands either watch porn or who were at one point addicted to it and they feel
1:03.3	that it is affecting their sex life. So you might say I've stumbled upon America's porn crisis.
1:11.1	I just didn't want to address it by myself.
1:14.6	So then I found the person I wanted to talk to.
1:18.6	His name or rather his brand is King David,
1:23.3	and he is the world's only quit porn strategist.
1:29.0	David is a young man with a big dream to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry,
1:39.3	one man at a time.
1:42.7	Pretty audacious, I'd say, makes my work seem easy.
1:47.8	David's history with porn dates to his teenage years and before.
1:52.6	Though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn.
1:59.0	And David wants to help them find the exit. Welcome to the show, David. Yeah, thank you so much for having on, Suzanne. Yeah, it was great to be here.
2:18.1	And it's great to have you here, I should say.
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