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The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

140: When the Intimacy Skills Don't Work for You

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 26 July 2022

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

As a listener of The Empowered Wife Podcast, you may have found yourself feeling hopeful that you could make your marriage last and thrive, like you hear every week from the women who share their stories. Maybe you got inspired to experiment with the Six Intimacy Skills™. But maybe it just didn't go over well. Maybe your husband didn't even respond when you apologized. Or he told you to stop with the gratitude because he doesn't need that. Or maybe you're working hard to practice the Intimacy Skills and he won't even talk to you. Or he's announced he's moving out or that he wants a divorce. It's so demoralizing and unfair. You might conclude that your situation is different, or too far gone, and the Intimacy Skills just won't work for you! And because you've heard so many success stories here, you feel like the only woman this isn't working for, which is awful. It's scary and painful to feel all alone and hopeless like that. It's especially tragic because you're not alone at all. It's not uncommon for students and even our coaches to feel like the Skills just aren't working for them. No kidding. But that doesn't mean your situation is hopeless. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we're talking about when the Intimacy Skills don't work for you.

My guest Marla's home was full of fights that turned violent, and their children were suffering. Her husband avoided her then said he wanted to separate and live alone abroad. Marla made a decision to do a few things differently in her marriage, and today she says it's very respectful and her husband is no longer planning to leave. He cleans the kitchen every day before she comes home and hangs out in the living room to talk to her. She's going to tell us what she did so you can do it too!

The Worst Relationship Advice of the Week Award goes to an answer to the question "My Husband Won't Spend Time With Me—What Should I Do?" It's actually what you should do if you want him to leave tire marks in the driveway.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your husband's conscious effort so that you feel desired,

0:17.0

taking care of and special, even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.

0:22.0

I'm Laura Doyle Doyle and today I'm talking about what to do

0:26.7

when the intimacy skills don't work for you. My guest Marla's home was full of fights that turned violent and their children were suffering.

0:36.3

Her husband avoided her and then he said he wanted to separate and live alone abroad.

0:46.7

Marla made a decision to do a few things differently in her marriage and today she says her marriage is very respectful and her husband is no longer planning to leave. He cleans the kitchen every day before she comes home and

0:55.6

hangs out in the living room to talk to her. She's going to tell us what she did so you can do it

1:01.0

too. The worst relationship advice at the Week Award goes to the answer to the question.

1:07.4

My husband won't spend time with me. What should I do? This advice is actually what you should do if you want him to go far, far away and possibly

1:17.4

leave tire marks in the driveway. Then you would want to follow this advice. All that's coming up, but first I'm going to talk about what to do

1:25.8

if the intimacy skills don't work for you.

1:29.2

As an Empowered Wife podcast listener, you may have found yourself feeling hopeful that you could make your marriage last and thrive like you're hearing about every single week from the wives who share their stories. Maybe you got inspired to read or listen to the

1:44.5

audiobook, the empowered wife, or to read the paperback version of it,

1:50.0

where the six intimacy skills are laid out step by step and maybe you started experimenting with them at home, which is logical, right?

1:59.2

But maybe it just didn't go over that well.

2:05.3

Maybe your husband didn't even respond to you when you apologized or or he maybe he told you to stop with the gratitude because he

2:09.5

doesn't need that. Or maybe you're working hard to practice the intimacy skills

2:14.2

and he still won't even talk to you.

2:17.2

Or he's announced that he's moving out

2:19.8

or that he wants a divorce.

2:22.2

It's so demoralizing and just seems so unfair. You might conclude that your situation

2:29.7

is different or that it's too far gone and the intimacy skills just won't work for you.

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