139: Why Husbands Come Back after Leaving for Another Woman

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 19 July 2022

⏱️ 78 minutes

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If your husband cheated and left you, it's one of the most heart-wrenching things anyone can go through. When the man who vowed to love you for better or worse betrays you, it affects your self-esteem, your health, your family, every aspect of your life. No one deserves to be treated that way. A lot of people will tell you it's time to give up on your marriage. But if you're reading this, there must be some part of you that still wants to make it work. The question is: How are you supposed to do that, especially if your husband is living with another woman? Or maybe he's saying he is done, he's not in love with you anymore and there's no changing his mind. It's enough to make anyone feel hopeless and ready to give up. Kudos to you for not giving up. Because as the wife, the keeper of your relationship, you have enormous power to turn things around, in my experience. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we're talking about why husbands come back after leaving for another woman.

My guest Julie's husband filed for divorce twice, and their marriage had little intimacy physically or emotionally. The whole thing seemed hopeless. But today her marriage is a delight because he dotes on her, they laugh together, and there's a lot of intimacy between them. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage
0:15.0	without your husband's conscious effort so that you feel desired, taken care of,
0:20.0	and special, even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.
0:24.7	I'm Laura Doyle and today I'm revealing why husbands come back
0:28.9	after leaving for another woman.
0:31.2	My guest Julie's husband filed for divorce twice and their marriage had little
0:36.4	physical intimacy or emotional intimacy and he didn't defend her from his family. The whole thing seemed hopeless but today her marriage is a delight because he dotes on her and they laugh together a lot
0:50.8	Most of all there's a lot of intimacy between them. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.
0:57.6	The worst relationship advice of the Week Award goes to an article that promises the secret to stopping housework-related resentment, but actually just says the same old tired thing that you and I already tried over and over and it never ever worked.
1:15.0	All that's coming up, but first I'm going to reveal why husbands come back
1:19.2	after leaving for another woman.
1:22.1	Now if your husband cheated and left you for someone else, it's one of the most
1:27.2	heartbreaking things anyone can go through. When the man who vowed to love you for better for worse for life betrays you it affects
1:38.4	your self-esteem your health your family every aspect your life, and no one deserves that.
1:46.3	Maybe he's saying he's done, he's not in love with you anymore, and there's no changing his mind.
1:54.0	Ouch! There's nothing more painful to hear.
1:57.0	It's enough to make anyone feel hopeless and ready to give up.
2:00.0	If you've been through the most devastating kind of betrayal, what now? A lot of people will tell you it's
2:07.5	time to give up on your marriage. But since you're listening to this podcast, that's proof that some part of you, and baby it's a small part, wants to fix this marriage.
2:20.0	And the question is, how are you supposed to do that, especially if your husband is already living with another woman?
2:26.0	I'm going to share that in a moment, but first, let me just say that if you're wanting your husband back after he's left for another woman, I admire you very much.
2:36.4	I admire your courage and your commitment. Not everybody has that. And I say that knowing that it may not feel so committed every
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