My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by

whatever means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow in your self work.

I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition Coach and Trauma Specialist.

Let's begin.

Hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

So I have a special treat for you this week.

This week we're talking about

avoidance, love avoidance, intimacy avoidance,

avoidance, avoidance, attachment styles, and we're digging

into ways that those of us who have that attachment style or disposition can make our lives better, make our relationships better.

And these are all relationships not just romantic

because those of us who struggle with avoidant attachment styles and ways of

seeing the world and interacting all of our relationships are affected because of the walls we put up because of the false

intimacy because of the mass because of our avoidance techniques and distancing from people and leaving before it gets too close.

So I'm going to give you three ways that you can implement some changes now today.

Thanks for listening to this week's pocket. implement some changes now today.

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