Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your husband's

conscious effort so that you feel desired and taken care of and special even if it

seems completely hopeless. I'm Laura Doyle and today we're talking about three steps to a more

attentive spouse. My guest Rebecca's husband was a workaholic who never had time for her and was probably having an affair with a coworker.

Then she went all in on using the intimacy skills, but the response she got was not great.

Today though, she says her relationship is amazing

and her husband is a wonderful provider.

She's going to tell us how she did it,

so you can do it too. The worst relationship advice of the week award goes to a common

and logical sounding idea about how to evaluate your relationship, but don't fall for this oldie moldy idea. All of that is coming up, but first I'm going to reveal three steps to having a more attentive spouse. If you are begging for attention in a relationship, it is so lonely and demoralizing and even demeaning. You shouldn't have to beg for attention from the man you married.

I remember the bad old days when my husband didn't want to be around me and they were lousy.

They were terrible.

Fortunately, I learned a thing or two to completely turn that around. So if you're

tired of begging for attention from your husband, you're not alone, and this is going to be so valuable for you. And maybe you're so ready for the

hurting to end that you're trying to figure out how to stop wanting attention from your husband.

But in my experience, that doesn't work.

I mean, who wants that really?

I didn't.

I wanted him to want to pay attention to me.

So I'll raise you.

Here's how to get more attention

from your husband in three simple steps.

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