#137: Dr. Caroline Leaf - Cleaning Up Our Mental Mess
The Mark Groves Podcast
Mark Groves
4.9 • 5K Ratings
🗓️ 5 March 2021
⏱️ 98 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to the Mark Groves podcast. I'm always really excited about our ability to change, |
| 0:16.4 | like our ability to transform, to take patterns and behaviors that have been holding us hostage |
| 0:22.1 | and changing them finally whatever it takes to get us there to actually go through that |
| 0:27.7 | transformation to initiate it and i think it's tony robbins who says that people change for |
| 0:33.5 | two reasons one that they learn so much they have to, and two, that they experience so much |
| 0:39.1 | pain that they have to. And maybe the argument about learning so much that they have to |
| 0:44.6 | is that there's too much dissonance with available knowledge that's just been learned. And I really do |
| 0:49.9 | believe that, that once you have too much knowledge that you're not living, the weight of |
| 0:55.2 | knowing that there's a better behavior available to you, a better choice, one that's going to |
| 1:01.1 | lighten the load, you know, so to speak. And I think that that is under the premise that for |
| 1:07.0 | humans, we wait till this moment of have to. And you know. I talk about this a lot of like waiting until we |
| 1:13.1 | have to versus waiting until we choose to, which is really just things are uncomfortable or I don't |
| 1:18.1 | like the way I've been, boom, change. And I think to get there, we have to have first sort of hit |
| 1:24.5 | the end of the road or hit the wall or the rock bottom. But then we realize |
| 1:29.3 | that there's so many minute bottoms far before the real bottoming out. And the ability to change |
| 1:35.1 | our brains, change the way we think, learn how to relate to feelings, learn how to relate to other |
| 1:41.3 | people. These are just such important aspects of awareness and knowledge |
| 1:48.0 | and things that we need to develop a deeper understanding about. Because when you realize that you |
| 1:53.4 | can do it, then it's possible. Then we don't feel imprisoned by a behavior or a pattern. You know, |
| 1:58.5 | the truth is, is that you can change anything. You can change any |
| 2:02.1 | behavior. You can learn any skill set. You know, when someone says I'm a bad communicator, |
| 2:07.2 | one, I always say to them that's a convenient sentence because it means your identity is, |
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