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The Mark Groves Podcast

#136: Selina Gray - Separating Your Worth From Your Net Worth

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 1 March 2021

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

We are taught to place our worth in our monetary worth. Our relationship to money is one of the most important ones in our lives. We are constantly interacting with money, and yet we’re not taught about it in school! The subject of finances is considered one of the leading causes of divorce, so how do we navigate that subject in a way that deepens intimacy and builds a bridge rather than a wall?  I’m excited to have returning guest, Selina Gray, who is a CPA and expert in managing and healing our relationship to money. Join us for an episode where dive into all the juiciness that money brings. If you’d like to sign up for our course, go to www.createthemoola.com and use the code createthemoola to save $50! You can find Selina on Instagram, on her website https://selinagray.com. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

Howdy. Welcome to another episode of the Mark Rose podcast. I mean, wanting to use Howdy more, you know.

0:14.7

We're in Idaho, and it just feels like the right way to greet people here. I need to cowboy it up a little bit. I'm actually

0:21.5

currently wearing a denim shirt as I record this. So, you know, I think the only thing that's

0:27.4

getting in the way is that I'm allergic to horses. So there's that. Yeah. Okay, well, that aside,

0:35.3

I was speaking to a friend recently about a survey that was done about, you know, with people about their relationships.

0:43.3

And what was really interesting is that people would rather talk about sex than money.

0:49.9

They found that the subject of money created more tension in their relationships than the subject of sex.

0:55.7

Now, that makes sense on like a logical level, I think, because we talk about the research that

1:03.8

shows that the conversation and the energetics of money and finance and debt, let's say,

1:12.0

and just how we have different ways of relating to money and debt

1:16.5

and how we use it and et cetera, et cetera,

1:18.9

that they often conflict and we don't know how to have

1:22.0

that conversation or to do it in a way

1:25.6

where both of us can have an experience if we're talking about a couple

1:29.0

and not invalidate the other, that one way seems to be the right way and the other one isn't.

1:34.5

As I sort of dove deeper into the subject, you know, because what I want to quickly reference

1:40.3

is this idea that that subject is the leading cause of divorce. And when you dive deeper

1:46.6

in the subject in another study that I looked at, it showed that millennials, 51% of millennials have

1:53.9

duped their partners in money matters, only 41% of Gen Xers, and 33% of boomers admitted to swindling their partners. Now this is a poll that was

2:06.1

done. That's interesting. So that's like hiding accounts, hiding debt, things like that. And I don't

2:13.8

think this is a subject that's spoken about enough, just like how much energetics and

2:18.6

weight is carried by this subject. And if it's breaking us up, or that's the perception, right,

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