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Counselling Tutor

135 – Preparing for Counselling Breaks

Counselling Tutor

Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes

Education, Courses

4.6 β€’ 636 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 21 December 2019

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Your First Client Hour - Planning for CPD In episode 135 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes offer tips on how to plan for counselling breaks. In 'Check-In with CPCAB', Rory talks to Kelly Budd about feelings as you approach your first client hour, and how to prepare for this. Finally, the presenters discuss the importance of CPD, and an exciting new way to access this online. Preparing for Counselling Breaks (starts at 2.15 mins) This topic is especially relevant as the winter holiday season approaches. Ken and Rory offer the following tips when taking a break from counselling work: Think about timescales for informing clients about any break you plan to take. In general, a minimum of one week's notice per month of work together is considered about right. Always assess each client's individual needs, mapping the support you suggest to these. Some clients may need more support during the break than others. Before taking a counselling break, consider whether you need to make any arrangements for clients to access alternative support during your absence - e.g. do you need to make a referral to another counsellor or service? Always discuss any plans for interim client support with your supervisor and practice manager. Some counsellors like to give or lend clients a transitional object that helps them remember the joint work during the break. Give your client some 'homework'. Some modalities (e.g. cognitive behavioural therapy - CBT) naturally do this, but even in those that don't (such as the person-centred approach), you might, for example, be able to encourage the client to do some journaling during counselling breaks. You can download Rory's handout on preparing for counselling breaks here, or access it through the Handouts Vault and Counselling Study Resource (CSR). Check-In with CPCAB: Your First Client Hour (starts at 11.15 mins) Feelings relating to the very first time you counsel a 'real' client once you start your counselling placement are a common topic of questions and conversation among students of counselling and psychotherapy on the Counselling Tutor Facebook page. Rory talks to Kelly Budd (Head of Qualifications) about the fact that it is natural to feel nervous as this time approaches - indeed, this can be positive as it shows you care how it goes and helps you do your best. There is no expectation that you will be perfect - we are all growing and learning all the time. Do try to have faith that you are good enough (after all, you've been signed off as fit to practise) - and remember too that your client is likely to be feeling more apprehensive than you are! Kelly lists some of the thoughts and questions that may be going around in your head, gives tips on how to prepare, and reminds us of the importance of marking the completion of this very first counselling hour with some kind of treat or celebration! You may also want to check out this resource on first counselling sessions. It contains helpful information on topping and tailing a first session, as well as on contracting. For more information about CPCAB, please see its website. CPCAB is the UK's only awarding body run by counsellors for counsellors. Planning for CPD (starts at 23.05 mins) Ken and Rory talk about the importance of continuing professional development (CPD) both for maintaining professional standards (a requirement of ethical bodies) and for serving our clients as fully as possible. There are different ways of getting CPD, including through both face-to-face and online modes. In January 2020, Counselling Tutor will be launching new products aimed at providing CPD opportunities for qualified counsellors. CPD is not just about theory, and this new product will also cover: skills personal development working with different client groups/presentations professional practice (e.g. note-taking)

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Counseling Tutor podcast.

0:04.4

The must listen to podcast for students of counselling and psychotherapy.

0:10.6

Here are your hosts, Rory Lise Oakes and Ken Kelly.

0:16.0

Hello, I'm Rory and with me as always is Ken.

0:19.6

How you doing, Ken?

0:20.4

Exceptionally well, Rory, delighted to be here. You have tuned in to episode 135 of the

0:27.0

counselling tutor podcast. We've got three fantastic topics to discuss today, starting off

0:32.2

with preparing for client breaks. At the time of this recording, it is very pertinent because we're kind of running

0:39.7

up to a seasonal break, but we're going to be covering different kinds of breaks as well.

0:44.2

How do we prepare our clients for those? Then our second topic is we're going to be checking

0:48.4

in with our good friends at CPCAB. And Rory, you spoke to Kelly Kelly Budd and you spoke about that very first ever

0:56.5

client hour. Yes and this is something that comes up in our Facebook page all the time and if you

1:02.6

don't know our Facebook pages well here we go if you just type in counseling tutor into Facebook

1:07.6

you'll find our page click on it it's It's a closed group. Knock on the door.

1:11.9

Of course we're going to let you in. And you'll be with thousands of other like-minded students.

1:17.1

There's tutors in there. They're qualified practitioners. And they're all talking about the world of

1:22.8

counseling and psychotherapy. So knock on that door and come on in. And this comes up quite a lot, this topic is quite a lot, as people post and say on the

1:32.0

Facebook page, my first client tower, oh, I'm not sure, you know, I'm not sure how I'm going

1:36.9

to deal with it.

1:38.2

Or, yes, my first client tower done.

1:41.1

Either way, it is a seminal, it's a seminal event in the life of a student

1:50.2

practitioner, that first client hour. And then Kelly Budd is going to be talking about how we make

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