135 - Intersex, Identity, & Ideology with Aaron Kimberly
Gender: A Wider Lens
Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley
4.6 • 961 Ratings
🗓️ 6 October 2023
⏱️ 70 minutes
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Summary
Join Sasha, Stella, and Aaron Kimberly for a conversation exploring gender identity, queer theory, and intersex experiences.
In this candid conversation, Aaron shares about his journey through adolescence and the challenges of growing up in a rural farming community with early onset gender dysphoria. He touches on categorization error and its impact on identity development, as well as the discovery of his intersex condition. The discussion explores the complexities of social transitioning within the lesbian community, and the importance of access to accurate information and its influence in shaping one's identity. The conversation even digs into the world of queer theory, its aim to deconstruct traditional categories, and the impact Aaron’s study of queer theory had on his perceptions of gender non-conformity and his own personal decision to transition.
Aaron Kimberly is a female to male transsexual, born with a rare ovotesticular intersex condition which was diagnosed when he was 19. As an adolescent, he was having severe gynecological problems and began to masculinize at the onset of puberty, until the ovotestes was discovered and removed. For many years, he was confused about his identity, sexuality and biological sex, and eventually decided to continue masculinizing with HRT and legally change sex.
Aaron is also a mental health nurse with an interest in the many forms of gender dysphoria, and concerned about the many iterations of social contagions among youth, such as ticks, "multiple personalities" and trans identity. He's the executive director of the Gender Dysphoria Alliance, co-host of the Transparency Podcast, a member of the newly launched LGBT Courage Coalition and a board member of APISC Digital Research Foundation which is using AI technology to map online influences on youth identity formation.
Links:
Gender Dysphoria Alliance
https://www.genderdysphoriaalliance.com/
Transparency Podcast
https://www.youtube.com/@GenderDysphoriaAlliance
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If you liked this episode, more episodes you might find interesting:
Episode 10 - Queer Theory: Subverting Life's Categories
https://gender-a-wider-lens.captivate.fm/episode/10-queer-theory
Episode 44 - Multiple Meanings of Gender Dysphoria: A Conversation with Aaron Terrell
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| 0:00.0 | Hi Stella. |
| 0:01.0 | Hey there, how are you? |
| 0:03.0 | I am well. |
| 0:05.0 | We were kind of looking back and we have been back on YouTube now since January |
| 0:11.8 | February, which is really amazing. It's a it's very different than what our |
| 0:16.0 | YouTube channel looked like before which is just kind of like a still image of the |
| 0:20.4 | kind of podcast art but now we are visually here with our faces. I had a fear like when we |
| 0:26.7 | when we said we'd move to YouTube I knew we'd get more listeners I knew we'd get more |
| 0:30.4 | comments I knew we'd get a bigger know, engagement and we've got it and it's brilliant. |
| 0:36.1 | But I was worried that we'd suddenly, I'd suddenly have to care what I was wearing and I'd have to care about |
| 0:41.3 | my looks, but I kind of lasted a bit of week and then I kind of got over it. |
| 0:45.6 | I went back to my sloppy ways. |
| 0:48.8 | You're not sloppy stuff. |
| 0:51.6 | Well, you know, it's interesting because I know we still have a lot of people who listen on audio only, which is amazing. |
| 0:59.4 | We love it. |
| 1:00.4 | But we want to encourage people, first of all all if you watch us on YouTube and if you enjoy that please don't forget to like our videos and subscribe to them it really helps us to kind of share the podcast with more people. |
| 1:13.1 | And if you're an audio-only listener, |
| 1:15.5 | please pop into YouTube every now and then |
| 1:18.0 | because you'll see the comments section is full. |
| 1:21.6 | And there's a lot of amazing engagement really supportive comments |
| 1:25.6 | really interesting critiques really insightful kind of like discussions |
| 1:30.6 | back and forth so even if you don't always check out our YouTube, please do that will really help us out and |
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