Welcome to UnFuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, and coaching to rewire your brain

and get what you want in life.

And now here's your host, Harvard Law School grad, Feminist Rockstar, and Master Coach,

Kara Loyenthyle.

Hello my chickens, I am so excited about the conversation that I'm going to share with you today.

So today's episode is a conversation with two more of my students, Deb and Marissa, both of whom are students

who have been in the clutch for a year and are just such amazing examples of what is possible

with this work.

And of course there are similar themes to some extent in all of these conversations because of how our brains are, but they worked

on really interesting different issues that I just can't wait for you guys to hear about.

So my conversation with Marissa, we talk a lot about dating and anxious attachment and preoccupied

attachment and dating anxiety. I know a lot of you who listen to this share those thought patterns. So you're going to find it super

helpful and she talks about how she ended up changing her thinking and what's different about the

relationship that she's able to be in now.

And then I also have a conversation with my student Deb

who, interestingly enough, had the opposite,

went through a breakup right before she

started doing this work with me and was able to handle the breakup in such a different way because of thought work.

Deb is also a long time social justice advocate and human.

And we talk a lot in this conversation

about what makes the clutch such a special space

in online feminist, activist, social justice work.

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