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The Jordan Harbinger Show

1244: Connection Crisis Corners Calculating Courtesan | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Social Sciences, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship, Talk Radio, Business, Science, Education

4.8 β€’ 12.1K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 21 November 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

You quit sex work to try real love with someone half your age. She's sweet but chaotic and rushing to move in. What could go wrong on Feedback Friday?

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1244

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

  • As detailed on episode 1162, you transitioned from sex work, opened yourself to genuine vulnerability, and started dating a much younger Chinese grad student in Japan. She seemed perfect at first β€” loving, accepting, kind β€” but red flags started appearing. How did this experiment in radical vulnerability turn out?
  • Your new boss is an award-winning academic genius who's destroying your workplace with delusional AI schemes, forcing everyone back to the office, and trying to rebrand 9/11. For some reason, he "likes" you enough to put you on all his committees. How do you work with a narcissistic visionary who won't listen to reason?
  • You're great at connecting with people but keep hiding your true feelings until relationships fall apart. You just broke up with someone after two years because of dealbreakers you discussed but never enforced. When's the right time to speak up about what really matters to you?
  • Recommendation of the Week: Cotopaxi Allpa Hip Pack
  • How do you distill your life experience, knowledge, and wisdom into advice your surly, hormonal teenaged son can absorb (and overcome the dread of messing it all up)?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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Transcript

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1:08.8

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with Feedback

1:13.2

Friday producer, the dank edible making you sink into this cozy Shes-Long of life drama,

1:18.3

Gabriel Mizrahi. And yes, I nailed the pronunciation of that word today.

1:22.1

That was, I was about to say 10 out of 10 on that one. Well done. I'm so proud of you.

1:26.3

No more Shez Lounge for me. I was listening to

1:29.4

an audiobook the other day and the narrator said Shez Lounge and I was like,

1:34.8

everybody knows that's not how you say it. How do they let that slip through? Amateurs, man.

1:40.6

The superiority once you learn something new. Amazing. It kicks in immediately. It takes like five minutes of you feeling stupid about not knowing it and then someone else gets it wrong. And you've been doing it wrong your whole life and you're like, look at this jagoff. Ken, doesn't know how to say Sheslong. If anyone's confused about what we're talking about, go back three, three and a half years maybe. There's's a whole Shays long versus Shays lounge conversation. That is a deep feedback Friday cut. That's right. That's right. Oh, geez only. On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills of the world's most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. Our mission is to help

2:17.9

you become a better informed, more critical thinker. During the week, we have long-form conversations

2:22.2

with a variety of amazing folks, arms dealers, drug traffickers, Russian spies, hostage negotiators.

2:27.5

This week we had Christopher Whitcomb, author of Anonymous Mail. This is a two-parter. Fascinating,

2:33.0

dude, man. Christopher was a hostage rescue team sniper

2:35.9

on the FBI who ended up traveling the world with alias, cash, guns, ended up doing some private

2:42.3

spy stuff, built a private army in the jungles of East Timor, working contracts for intelligence

2:47.3

agencies, of course, survived a coup d'etat. His stories are bonkers. That's why it's a two-parter.

2:53.3

He ended up writing this memoir about the whole experience. Also kind of a cautionary tale of what happens

2:58.2

to the people the government trains to lie, even to themselves. We also did a skeptical Sunday

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