Yo, today's QLD is we need to be un-f withable.

Welcome back to the Court of the Day Show. I'm your host, Sean Crackson,

Sean Crackson.com. We've got Vision, Lachiani, founder of Mind Valley on the

Show today. And he's going to talk about becoming un-f withable. There's lots of

language in this one, by the way. So, you know, I want to cover the kids ears or

something. But un-f withable, what does that mean? You know, I think I told you

about this before, but I'll do it again. Back when I started making videos on YouTube,

like in 2007, I probably did consistent YouTube videos for about four or five years. But

maybe it was like a year number two or three. I could not handle the negative comments.

Like I couldn't, it's just, it just, there would be like 99 positive comments. Yay,

Sean, that was awesome. We love you, man. But there was always that one or two or three

people, right? Who had to say something negative. And it would just eat away at me all day

long. I could not handle the criticism. To the point where, you know, I had, I don't

know, 50, 60,000 subscribers at the time. Maybe less, maybe more. I can't remember.

But I shut down my YouTube account. It was like gone. I just didn't want to deal with

it anymore. And it felt good for a minute. But after about a day or so, I was like, no,

that was not a good idea. And it reminds me of this concept. I think his name is Nassine

Taleb. He's got a book called Anti-Fragility. And his idea, his concept is that human beings

are, you know, wired to be anti-fragile. What is anti-fragile? It's the opposite of fragility,

right? A being fragile. So in other words, what makes us less fragile, what thickens up

our skin is going through it, is going through the challenges and the criticisms that are

going to come our way when we're on our journeys. But most people, when they get those negative

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