#122: Getting Back Together Won't Work If... (Signs You're Setting Yourself Up for Heartbreak)
Breakup Boost: Advice to Get Over Heartbreak
Trina Leckie
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 8 September 2019
⏱️ 7 minutes
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Summary
If you are in the position where you are thinking of getting back together with your ex or even wishing you could, you REALLY need to listen to this!
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| 0:00.0 | Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else. |
| 0:10.0 | Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle. |
| 0:15.0 | She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life. |
| 0:20.0 | Hey guys, so the topic of this episode is getting back together won't work if |
| 0:26.7 | da da da da da. So as you all know breakups can be really painful. |
| 0:33.4 | Like sometimes you just want to get back together to relieve that pain. |
| 0:37.2 | In a lot of cases that's true. |
| 0:39.7 | Definitely not to relive the pain. The worst thing could have happened but when you're in the midst of it |
| 0:47.0 | overlooking the problems can just seem like the easier route to take. |
| 0:52.0 | Plus you may have been really hurt, said some bad things to each other, but that |
| 0:57.9 | doesn't just mean that your feelings disappear. You know, although can you imagine how much easier that would make things? |
| 1:05.0 | Sweeping things under the rug will always come back to haunt you. |
| 1:10.0 | So, if you are in the position where you are thinking of getting back together with your |
| 1:15.6 | X or even wishing you could, you really need to think things through with the clear minds. Okay, not when you're feeling overly |
| 1:25.3 | emotional. So in other words, think with your head and not just with your heart. So for starters, if you have not communicated about the issues in depth, |
| 1:37.4 | you should not consider getting back together. Okay, are both people taking accountability? One person may be more at fault for a specific |
| 1:48.0 | incident or whatever, but there are always things that both people can work on. No progress can be made if one person is pointing all the fingers. |
| 1:57.6 | Communication is the glue which holds a relationship together. |
| 2:04.0 | Next, was it a matter of trust being broken? |
| 2:09.0 | Because rarely can people get past issues where one or both people has been betrayed or lie to? |
| 2:17.3 | Okay the pain of broken trust runs so deep. It really doesn't get much worse than that and it just changes everything. |
| 2:27.3 | No matter how much you may love someone you have to be realistic. Without trust, you don't really have a foundation from which to build from. |
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